Only seven per cent of young men report problems being able to keep an erection, whereas up to 52 per cent of men between 40 and 70 will experience some degree of erectile dysfunction. He may be experiencing low testosterone, which is a normal result of aging. So many people wanted to know why I took the slanted approach of wives who are refusing their husbands. As the saying goes, "familiarity breeds contempt," as you and your partner get into a sex routine that may cause you to take each other for granted. He expects to lose his hair and develop a beer belly but no one really talks about what happens to man's best friend as you get past If he's avoiding sex because of erection problems, the pressure of not being able to perform when you so desperately want him to could be absolutely disastrous. Instead say, 'I love it when you kiss my neck' or 'If you don't feel like sex, would it be okay if you gave me oral sex sometimes? When your guy comes up behind you and puts his arms around you, he is risking rejection. After three or four failed attempts, he shut down. Ask yourself if you're willing to spend your life with a beloved man who won't sleep with you. By learning how to touch your partner in a pleasing way, you can revitalize the romance of foreplay, which, by the way, begins way before the bedroom and has everything to do with the small kindnesses you show to your mate. Ask for one thing at a time Because women are so good at processing information and articulating thoughts, we'll often fire off 10 requests and possible solutions in the one chat. He may be bored. This can cause a loss of libido.