I am getting bored! It could mean that she wants to take things a further step, from closeness to having sex. If you plan on asking your girlfriend if she wants to have sex, then you should do it in an intimate setting -- not while you're splitting a cheeseburger. If her actions have been getting more sexual -- like if she's touching your manhood through your pants, or placing your hands on her breasts -- then she may be ready for something more. Any woman has the right to wear whatever she wants. Over the past 20 years, I've informally polled dozens of sex therapists asking about the gender break-down of desire differences. I don't pretend that my findings represent anything beyond a seat-of-the-pants inquiry, but therapists' replies have been remarkably consistent: Method Just Ask 1 Be prepared. Of course, this could all just be talk, but if she's comfortable enough with herself and you to go this far, then she may be ready for more. She wants to know if you are interested in developing a long-term relationship with her or just using her as a one night stand. Intimate places are your thighs, behind your ears, neck and even your chest. If she's suddenly very curious about which of your friends are having sex and which aren't, then she may be wondering when you two will have sex too. She licks her lips time and again This is another habit difficult to fake. How intimate do you have to be?