This will feel so good to your slave that they will be inspired to continue to maintain control when they are ordered to do so. Alternatively for men , the release of semen during the emission phase of ejaculation might be prevented by some sort of constriction "blocked orgasm". Short-term denial practices[ edit ] Tease and denial[ edit ] Tease and denial is a situation where a person is stimulated until they are close to orgasm, then stimulation is stopped, keeping the person on the brink of orgasm. Write Me Your Thoughts Does your submissive have a hard time communicating with you? Want them really begging for release by the end, have your submissive edge themselves the same amount of times each day as the highest dice roll. They will learn the true power of your control when they deny themselves under your command. These points can then be cashed in for rewards. This is similar to orgasm control, but without the promise of orgasm at the end. The strict locked chastity device is a nice reminder of who is in charge, as it stops the submissive from being able to touch their naughty parts even if they wanted too. They will simply need to learn how to ride the waves. Give the submissive the choice of either spreading these attempts throughout the day or performing them all at once. You have five minutes If you can orgasm in the next two minutes you will be allowed to have orgasms for the rest of the night. You can also critique their writing when they had it in. Feeling cruel use two dice. The dom will often deny the submissive BDSM sexual release to maintain their heightened state of sexual arousal, as a way to satisfy their desires for erotic humiliation, or as a way to satisfy the dominant's own desires to be erotically humiliated.