This can happen before you even realize it, but it happens. Maybe you have decided that you can't forgive what has happened, then it is time for you to get a new start. Unless it started when you were drunk, or mad at your spouse, you typically get drawn in. However, if there is an emotional connection it's past the point of being able to forgive. You can't help but begin to imagine the person your talking to doing things to you, especially if they are describing what those things may be. In some cases, you may need to talk about how far is acceptable to both of you. Nobody wants to think about their partner being unfaithful. Most men believe that cheating is a physical act, and feel that actual sexual interaction constitutes cheating. Most are familiar with the term and what it implies, but for those of you who may not be aware, allow me to explain. For many people, this form of flirting is just enough to pass the gentle urges that wash over them to spice up their own love lives. When you are sexting with someone you begin to desire that person more and more. Sexting is cheating because - If you're hiding it, you shouldn't be doing it Let's all be real here. What about emotional cheating? Additionally, they say that in text messaging, since there is an absence of face-to-face and voice contact, many people are able to feel disconnected from the text in the text messages themselves. I don't understand it, but I know that a lot of people would rather be cheated on physically than emotionally, and sexting makes an emotional connection a lot easier to have. Sexting your husband or boyfriend will blow their mind! Or, is it that you aren't getting what you need sexually from your partner?