A young man emailed: The only other thing I'd add is that you need to be able to talk to your girlfriend about this, and you need to be able to experiment sexually in a relaxed way. Man on top is great, but you should try the scissors! Should I be thrusting, which is how I thought it would be, or should I be doing what I was doing, which was sliding my whole body up and down hers, so as to move my cock in and out of her vagina? Watching my woman orgasm is an amazing sight. When she tells me she would like me to raise myself, it takes the pleasure down a little for me, because I find I have to focus on keeping myself up on my arms, and this is a bit of a strain. The woman is able to move her clitoris against the base of his penis so that she can find the exact movement or angle of entry which allows her clitoris or G spot to be stimulated - that way she may be able to reach orgasm during intercourse. We Have The Answer! Well, like most men I like to see my wife's behind in the air - it really gets me thinking, I want to be in there! The man is saved the effort of thrusting, which can be tiring, and can make him come quickly. She's had two kids, so the best position for tightness is a variation of man on top where she holds her legs together and I push into her. Also, don't forget that sex positions with the woman on top can be much better for both partners. Or you can make small in and out movements that stimulate the outer part of her vagina. You don't have to just stick to one rigid formula when you have sex. We'd only do that in the context of a loving relationship, but she can look into my eyes and see the desire there as I enter her, and I guess that lets her fantasize about how much men might want to have sex with her. I love holding my partner down and being able to look into her eyes as I push my penis into her - gently or more forcefully, depending on how we feel, whether we're making love or enjoying more powerful sex. Do you wonder if you are doing things right with your woman in bed?